One in seven couples seek medical help at some stage in their lives in order to achieve a pregnancy. For some people treatment with sperm, eggs or embryos donated by others is their only hope of achieving a pregnancy and ultimately a family.
Unfortunately there is a shortage of egg and sperm donors in the UK. Many of those who are unable to be treated because of a lack of donors face profound psychological and emotional strain.
The donation of egg or sperm to help a couple have a child is one of the most generous gifts anyone can give. Many donors feel a sense of pride, knowing the joy they have brought to people who could not have otherwise become parents.
If you are a woman, between the age of 18 and 35 years or a man between 18 and 45 and are generally healthy, you can donate.
The decision to donate can have consequences for you, the people who receive your donation, any children that are born as a result and for your own family if you have one. It is therefore important that you get as much advice as you can. We can put you in touch with other donors. Once you take the step of contacting a clinic you should make sure you have a chance to get your questions answered. Ask people you trust what they think too - this can often be very helpful.
This may lead you to decide that donating is not for you. If you are in any doubt, don't do it.
However, the vast majority of those who have donated before you agree on one thing:
"It is one of the best things I have ever done in my life!"
Stories from donors:
It's often said egg donors are kind and altruistic, but I gained from my experience, a feeling of warmth and wellbeing remains and I think it is quite simply the best thing I have ever done."
It's 5 years ago and I still feel special. It has been one of the most rewarding things of my life.
Story from recipient:
With grateful thanks